Rememberies...

So a few days ago, August 18th to be exact..marks the three year anniversary of the day Ben and I met online. I get so overwhelmed when I think of how random and fated that evening was. I had attended Austin and Laura Cope's wedding reception, then had a date planned. My date fell through so I wandered onto and LDS dating site. I got annoyed with how hard it was to create a profile...so I just lazily logged in to LDSchat.com. I hadn't been on in years...like 7 years I think. Ben was logged in as "tenortoyourheart"..or tenor to your heart if that's hard to read ha ha. I started talking to him, figuring he was probably a singer so we might have something to talk about! Boy did we ever...we talked for something like 4 hours...and that evening I saved his number into my phone as "Ben Hubby"...it's still saved that way. I wanted to share some parts of our chat conversation which I am SO grateful Ben saved! There are both funny parts, and parts that just reveal why it was so easy to fall in love with each other. So for your enjoyment...

single and free.:-) says: (10:06:54 PM)

so you're not a stalker freak are ya? ;)

(don't you love how my screen name was single and free?)

btyrrel@gmail.com says: (10:07:28 PM)

um..i dont think so

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btyrrel@gmail.com says: (10:22:17 PM)

so...I'm ben btw

single and free.:-) says: (10:22:22 PM)

and I'm Kirsten

(notice this is over 15 minutes into the conversation..ha ha)

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single and free.:-) says: (10:24:54 PM)

you're not really some computer crazed addict who never sees sunlight?

btyrrel@gmail.com says: (10:25:15 PM)

no...i have windows

(HA HA!!!)

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single and free.:-) says: (10:46:45 PM)

ever been married or anything?

btyrrel@gmail.com says: (10:46:56 PM)

NO!!!

single and free.:-) says: (10:47:09 PM)

scared of the ultimate commitment huh
?

btyrrel@gmail.com says: (10:47:22 PM)

not really...just havent met anyone yet

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single and free.:-) says: (11:01:38 PM)

very cute! what color are your eyes

single and free.:-) says: (11:01:39 PM)

?

btyrrel@gmail.com says: (11:01:42 PM)

blue

single and free.:-) says: (11:01:52 PM)

I can tell even in the black and white picture

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After hearing him sing on youtube the following took place:

single and free.:-) says: (11:15:07 PM)

so....I have a question

btyrrel@gmail.com says: (11:15:11 PM)

k

single and free.:-) says: (11:15:27 PM)

will you marry me? (#)

single and free.:-) says: (11:15:29 PM)

haha

btyrrel@gmail.com says: (11:15:30 PM)

LOL

single and free.:-) says: (11:15:49 PM)

my weaknes...you hit it

single and free.:-) says: (11:15:51 PM)

way to go

btyrrel@gmail.com says: (11:15:56 PM)

YES!!!

single and free.:-) says: (11:16:13 PM)

is that the answer to my proposal? lol

btyrrel@gmail.com says: (11:16:19 PM)

LOL

BIG BONUS HERE: after telling him about my first marriage:

single and free.:-) says: (11:39:43 PM)

yeah. marriage is scary...because I knew my ex for 2 years before I married him, and he STILL changed his mind

btyrrel@gmail.com says: (11:40:31 PM)

see...I am sure that all marriages have thier ups and downs...but thats when you stick it out and work together

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btyrrel@gmail.com says: (11:49:07 PM)

i hate it when depressed girls talk to me

single and free.:-) says: (11:49:25 PM)

am i depressed? or are we talking about someone else???

btyrrel@gmail.com says: (11:49:30 PM)

like they try to guilt me into liking them

btyrrel@gmail.com says: (11:49:36 PM)

someone else

btyrrel@gmail.com says: (11:49:37 PM)

lol

btyrrel@gmail.com says: (11:49:48 PM)

your quite chipper actually

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This part gave me butterflies all over again after reading it:

btyrrel@gmail.com says: (12:02:12 AM)

so...okay...i was looking through your pics...um...

single and free.:-) says: (12:02:33 AM)

yeah????

btyrrel@gmail.com says: (12:02:33 AM)

your really beautiful...

btyrrel@gmail.com says: (12:02:40 AM)

if you dont mind me saying

single and free.:-) says: (12:02:51 AM)

thank you! that made me feel good inside :)

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After telling me he’s a composer:

single and free.:-) says: (12:08:25 AM)

ok so.

single and free.:-) says: (12:08:29 AM)

wedding in...June?

btyrrel@gmail.com says: (12:08:35 AM)

sure...lol

btyrrel@gmail.com says: (12:08:37 AM)

LOL

single and free.:-) says: (12:08:38 AM)

gives us PLENTY of time to get to know each other

single and free.:-) says: (12:08:39 AM)

haha

btyrrel@gmail.com says: (12:08:47 AM)

totally!

single and free.:-) says: (12:08:47 AM)

I write lyrics

btyrrel@gmail.com says: (12:08:55 AM)

WHAT!!!!??!?!?!

btyrrel@gmail.com says: (12:09:06 AM)

Where the heck have you been all my life...

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single and free.:-) says: (12:10:03 AM)

I'm serious that I'm a little shocked by how much we have in common.

single and free.:-) says: (12:10:05 AM)

in a balanced way

btyrrel@gmail.com says: (12:10:11 AM)

i know

btyrrel@gmail.com says: (12:10:24 AM)

and the fact that i am so not freaked out about it

btyrrel@gmail.com says: (12:10:25 AM)

lol

single and free.:-) says: (12:10:26 AM)

and to think I NEVER get on chat rooms anymore

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btyrrel@gmail.com says: (12:13:27 AM)

my parents were married in june

btyrrel@gmail.com says: (12:13:30 AM)

still married

single and free.:-) says: (12:13:31 AM)

well I promise it's true!

single and free.:-) says: (12:13:37 AM)

so were mine :)

single and free.:-) says: (12:13:39 AM)

what day?

btyrrel@gmail.com says: (12:13:44 AM)

12

single and free.:-) says: (12:13:46 AM)

WOW

single and free.:-) says: (12:13:49 AM)

so close

single and free.:-) says: (12:13:53 AM)

that would have been freaky

single and free.:-) says: (12:13:58 AM)

mine were the 14th

btyrrel@gmail.com says: (12:13:59 AM)

yeah it would have

btyrrel@gmail.com says: (12:14:04 AM)

close enough

btyrrel@gmail.com says: (12:14:06 AM)

what year

single and free.:-) says: (12:14:12 AM)

ummm

single and free.:-) says: (12:14:14 AM)

1980

btyrrel@gmail.com says: (12:14:21 AM)

MINE TOO!!!

btyrrel@gmail.com says: (12:14:23 AM)

LOL

single and free.:-) says: (12:14:26 AM)

NO WAY

single and free.:-) says: (12:14:36 AM)

are you for real?

btyrrel@gmail.com says: (12:14:37 AM)

SO FUNNY!

btyrrel@gmail.com says: (12:14:40 AM)

yup

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btyrrel@gmail.com says: (12:26:19 AM)

um...so if you are my friend...you can totally come with me too all my fancy opera shindigs

btyrrel@gmail.com says: (12:26:21 AM)

lol

btyrrel@gmail.com says: (12:26:42 AM)

the best italian is here...Antinellos

single and free.:-) says: (12:26:58 AM)

is that so?

single and free.:-) says: (12:27:06 AM)

what about when I'm your wife? haha

btyrrel@gmail.com says: (12:27:25 AM)

well...thats just a given

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single and free.:-) says: (1:06:42 AM)

I can tell your sense of humor through your words

btyrrel@gmail.com says: (1:06:52 AM)

lol...is that a good thing?

single and free.:-) says: (1:07:13 AM)

yeah! I need a guy who can make me laugh! and you can do it even without trying!

single and free.:-) says: (1:07:23 AM)

look how many times I've typed "haha" tonight

btyrrel@gmail.com says: (1:07:32 AM)

i know...

btyrrel@gmail.com says: (1:07:42 AM)

but its funny...cause i really dont think i am that funny

btyrrel@gmail.com says: (1:07:45 AM)

lol

single and free.:-) says: (1:07:50 AM)

well I think you are "witty"

single and free.:-) says: (1:08:00 AM)

and that's the type of humor that makes me laugh

btyrrel@gmail.com says: (1:08:11 AM)

good thing

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After he told me he’d never kissed a girl:

single and free.:-) says: (1:16:05 AM)

well I'll fix that. worry not. your first kiss will be amazing

btyrrel@gmail.com says: (1:16:09 AM)

lol

btyrrel@gmail.com says: (1:16:42 AM)

This might sound lame..but i wanted my first kiss to be with someone special

btyrrel@gmail.com says: (1:16:48 AM)

and just never have

single and free.:-) says: (1:17:28 AM)

haha well after you wait so long, you just figure why not keep waiting? right?

btyrrel@gmail.com says: (1:17:37 AM)

yeah...pretty much

single and free.:-) says: (1:17:47 AM)

and now that the time has come and you can kiss me, your future wife...it's good you waited

single and free.:-) says: (1:17:49 AM)

HAHA

btyrrel@gmail.com says: (1:17:59 AM)

LOL

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btyrrel@gmail.com says: (1:19:58 AM)

have you thought that you would have twins

btyrrel@gmail.com says: (1:20:08 AM)

cause i have...just one of those feelings

single and free.:-) says: (1:20:12 AM)

I'm almost certain it's a strong possibility

single and free.:-) says: (1:20:13 AM)

WOW

btyrrel@gmail.com says: (1:20:24 AM)

do twins run in your family

single and free.:-) says: (1:20:40 AM)

you think that YOU will? or I will? I mean...well i guess it's the same thing haha

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tyrrel@gmail.com says: (1:32:41 AM)

well...supposidly i am going to be having some unforseen expenses in the near future.

btyrrel@gmail.com says: (1:32:52 AM)

lol

single and free.:-) says: (1:32:56 AM)

that's true :) wedding rings cost money

btyrrel@gmail.com says: (1:33:05 AM)

yeah

single and free.:-) says: (1:33:08 AM)

but I have one you can trade in :) HA HA

btyrrel@gmail.com says: (1:33:15 AM)

YES!!!

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single and free.:-) says: (1:35:56 AM)

I melted your defenses! haha

btyrrel@gmail.com says: (1:36:07 AM)

yeah...it was pretty fast

single and free.:-) says: (1:36:13 AM)

I just hope you can see past my giant goiter...on my neck

btyrrel@gmail.com says: (1:36:14 AM)

usually takes months...years even

single and free.:-) says: (1:36:20 AM)

HAHAHAHAHAHAHA

btyrrel@gmail.com says: (1:36:23 AM)

ew!!!

btyrrel@gmail.com says: (1:36:28 AM)

lol

single and free.:-) says: (1:36:28 AM)

I have tears Iaughing so hard!

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btyrrel@gmail.com says: (1:40:15 AM)

honestly...i dont think it i would feel strange meeting you

btyrrel@gmail.com says: (1:40:18 AM)

others...yes

single and free.:-) says: (1:40:33 AM)

well I wouldn't feel strange meeting you either.

single and free.:-) says: (1:40:40 AM)

haha the thought of it makes me nervous though.

btyrrel@gmail.com says: (1:40:48 AM)

yeah...

btyrrel@gmail.com says: (1:40:49 AM)

lol

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btyrrel@gmail.com says: (1:44:24 AM)

oh...and michael buble

btyrrel@gmail.com says: (1:44:27 AM)

no

btyrrel@gmail.com says: (1:44:40 AM)

my most recent music purchase

Kirsty loo hoo says: (1:44:44 AM)

get outta here

Kirsty loo hoo says: (1:44:50 AM)

Stop blowing my mind!

Kirsty loo hoo says: (1:44:56 AM)

he's in my CD player right now

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btyrrel@gmail.com says: (1:47:48 AM)

i only fly to utah or vegas now

btyrrel@gmail.com says: (1:47:55 AM)

not that i go to vegas

Kirsty loo hoo says: (1:47:58 AM)

when's your next flight??? haha

btyrrel@gmail.com says: (1:48:16 AM)

was going to be next weekend...but fell through

Kirsty loo hoo says: (1:48:22 AM)

no way....

Kirsty loo hoo says: (1:48:30 AM)

put it back together

Kirsty loo hoo says: (1:48:34 AM)

:)

btyrrel@gmail.com says: (1:48:34 AM)

lol

Kirsty loo hoo says: (1:48:49 AM)

or....just come anyway! jk

btyrrel@gmail.com says: (1:48:56 AM)

LOL

Kirsty loo hoo says: (1:49:05 AM)

that's not movin too fast is it??? haha

btyrrel@gmail.com says: (1:49:18 AM)

no...just warp speed

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Kirsty loo hoo says: (1:56:06 AM)

r u sure you're not a figment of my imagination??

btyrrel@gmail.com says: (1:56:30 AM)

i hope not...cause i would hate to dissapoint you

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btyrrel@gmail.com says: (2:16:36 AM)

ha...you changed you name

btyrrel@gmail.com says: (2:16:45 AM)

lol

Kirsty loo hoo says: (2:16:45 AM)

I sure did... took ya long enuff to notice

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Kirsty loo hoo says: (2:49:12 AM)

k i'll go first

Kirsty loo hoo says: (2:49:18 AM)

it'll be like you're holding the door open for me

btyrrel@gmail.com says: (2:49:28 AM)

we can go at the same time

Kirsty loo hoo says: (2:49:30 AM)

the "sign off" door

btyrrel@gmail.com says: (2:49:30 AM)

lol

Kirsty loo hoo says: (2:49:32 AM)

ok......

Kirsty loo hoo says: (2:49:35 AM)

one...

btyrrel@gmail.com says: (2:49:38 AM)

2

Kirsty loo hoo says: (2:49:41 AM)

ah!

Kirsty loo hoo says: (2:49:47 AM)

3?

btyrrel@gmail.com says: (2:49:54 AM)

night

btyrrel@gmail.com says: (2:49:58 AM)

lol

Kirsty loo hoo says: (2:50:01 AM)

night

WELL if you read all of that I give you props! I had to leave out a LOT as you can figure...but Ben and I laugh so hard and really enjoy reading this once a year. I can't believe so much of my life has happened because of such a chance moment...

Marrying the man of my dreams

Living in California

Having a beautiful baby boy

And everything else that has happened since that night!!!!

I love my Benny Boo!!!
(p.s. he saved me in his phone as "Bella Kirsten" or "Beautiful Kirsten"..it's still the same today!)

I hope we always appreciate the small moments that made us fall in love!!!